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Getting frustrated that everyone wants me to be happy with a decision rather than just fine with it.
@advicepig Oh, yeah, that one ranges from annoying ("pretend you're happy so we don't feel guilty!") to deeply uncooperative ("You said you felt happy last time! And I'm not happy this time so this can't be a fair decision!")
I feel the tradeoff for the `loser' not sulking or re-litigating is the `winners' not pretending it was a decision with no costs.