As a joke, a few days ago I had asked @noelle: "do you want to fork off together?"
And I guess that's where #ForkOffTogether kinda stems from.
We've received an overwhelming response to the survey, both good and bad, but mostly good.
We have over 80 people who've said that they want to join, and 64 names to reach out to.
I think we're ready to start.
@jasondclinton @Nerdcoresteve @Gargron @MeimuHakurei
Right. Cause I should have to ask my friends to change "buses", and find someone capable of building the bus, and driving the bus, and maintaining the bus, because the original bus won't respect the riders. Yeah, that sure makes sense.
Sidenote: yeah, being ace/aro was kind of an open question for us, 'cos unlike other things it didn't seem as right. Now that we know we can be separate, the question resolved on its own =)
Anyway, we hope we aren't going to have problems with each other in the future =)
And while I wanted to be "normal" I was the most "different" of all of us - "unemotional", the most "masculine"/nonbinary, and I am aroace (while π is romantic and π± is sexual (aro?))
As if I just was pushing my own problems on others (π± heh)
π¦ I was wrong about both π and π±. They aren't evil. They aren't gonna "front forever and ruin everything". They just think differently, and want sometimes to choose, too. But while I was afraid of them, I was doing it myself <.<
We aren't "sometimes fusion, sometimes separate". We are always fused, just sometimes we don't agree on things, and sometimes we agree so much we aren't sure who said what
We should be friends, we should help each other... And I didn't, I just wanted to be "normal"
And the thing was that it wasn't only the usual imposter syndrome, but that with one description we tried to fit all 3 of us into the same things. But there isn't one description. There isn't one "rule" of how we should be. We are all nonbinary in different ways. We are all autistic in different ways. And with plurality I (π¦) struggled to realise that we aren't supposed to be the same, or "stable", and we argued with each other about how we were different and I didn't want that
The interesting thing about any identity l've taken... Is that first I was happy for others and understood them, then I try it for myself, realise that it explains many things about me, then I spend lots of time coming back to the fear of "mb I'm wrong" and "I'm broken"
It was with being trans. It was with being autistic. And it was with us being plural
In reality though, we are just different from what other people think, which for many is equal with us being "wrong" and "broken"
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"I left Mastodon yesterday"
In fine Mastodon storming-off tradition, I've written a flipping long Medium post.
https://medium.com/@cassolotl/i-left-mastodon-yesterday-4c5796b0f548
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