@redacted i have tried it (hetero only) in various positions: sideways, man on top, woman on top and have so far found them all uncomfortable. i think for me it is in part due to the fact that i do not want to *receive* oral for as long as i want to *give* oral so at some point i just become very frustrated by it. receiving oral is something i derive very limited pleasure from and i don't usually want it to go on for more than, like, a minute or two.

@SmittenKitten Yeah, that seems to be somewhat common, almost everyone I've been with also preferred any kind of penetration over it. Could also be a skills thing, i.e. I probably suck (pun unintended) at oral. And I also don't get too much out of receiving it, though that's probably a mix of mindset/mood and skills.

@erinT it does indeed. i know i am.

@SmittenKitten yeah, but I like when @jellydiver is on top 😅

@jellydiver hmmmm thank you for this datapoint! are you two of similar heights? it's been suggested maybe that helps. @instajelly

@SmittenKitten @instajelly about the same

@jellydiver one inch difference ;) @SmittenKitten