@ghost
This brought back memories of my parents calling me lazy whenever I didn't get grades they thought were goid enough, which was pretty much all the time starting in fifth grade. Calling me that didn't help, and they hnever looked into why I wasn't doing as well as I had been.

It's ironic that the word "laziness" is often used as a judgement by people who can't be bothered to ask why a person is doing what they're doing.