To those who have sent me follow requests:
It's nothing personal if I reject your request. It's that I want to keep my account on Octodon more personal & I don't know you well enough to be comfortable accepting your request.
If you want me to get to know you, you can follow me on my social.coop account (@ND3JR) which is public. Then after we interact you can try again and you'll have a better chance of your request getting accepted.
I guess I'm lucky: I've only been misgendered twice since growing my hair out. Before I grew a beard one girl came up to me and asked, "Are you a boy or a girl?" I wanted to ask her, "Does it matter?"
Toxic masculinity. Does that mean all masculinity is bad? No! Not at all.
This comic explains it fairly well. The term Toxic Masculinity is from Social Sciences, to help explain certain problems in the current image of Masculinity, which hurts both men and women.
mental health / suicide posting meta (+) Show more
Nobody here wants to be dead. Nobody here wants anyone else to be dead.
Sometimes, when someone gets overwhelmed by strong emotions or their body's needs haven't been met, they'll post that they want to be dead.
And I'm going to tell you something that you might not expect me to say: Please continue doing that.
If you post your bad feelings, your friends get a chance to comfort you. We can help you work through your problems.
If you stay silent, you will only hear more silence. Nobody can help you if nobody knows you need help.
If nothing else, posting and reading the responses allows you to stall for time for your brain to get unstuck.
Big Pharma Just Bought Access to Your DNA From Genealogy Company 23andMe https://returntonow.net/2019/01/09/big-pharma-just-bought-access-to-your-dna-from-genealogy-company-23andme/
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Ah, February 3rd, the day I like to call "The best day to do anything in the evening that isn't related to watching some contrived bullshit on a TV screen and paying for it with my attention.
birdsite, profanity, a wish that will go unheeded. Show more
I want to grab every person who posts 50+ tweets (with graphs, and an actual story arc) and ask them politely to FUCKING PUT IT IN YOUR FUCKING BLOG.
(This goes double for folks on the fediverse).
Figured I'd post some pictures of Freyja I took last week when messing around with my camera on a tabletop tripod. These are the JPEGs created by the camera that reflect what I saw on the viewscreen. I had it set to monochrome for scene composition, so that's why they're in black-and-white.
I also have the raw NEF files of these pictures, and I'll toot those after I process them. Those will be in color.
A question mostly directed at @nivex but open to anyone: where are some docs to learn about IPv6? I'm asking a someone who's tried going IPv6 in the past but never completely followed through.
It doesn't help that my DSL modem manufacturer wants to treat IPv6 like IPv4 by requiring NAT in order to use IPv6.
if you’re ever feeling down and unmotivated, i’m cheering for you. yes that’s me outside your window with the pom poms. no, i won’t leave, and no i don’t care if you’re calling the police. i’m getting closer every passing moment. your heart is pounding with fear and you’re checking the locks on your windows and doors in panic
Ohhh.... This is a good one:
Why Americans Get Socialism and Capitalism Backwards
If Capitalism Made People Rich, and Socialism Made People Poor, Why Did Americans End Up Broke, Powerless, and Exploited?