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some thoughts on "trigger warnings"

I give up. Whatever. If you are so God-awful sensitive that you can't handle a well-within the bounds of normal discussion debate on politics, then there's not much point in anything.

but I will be polite.

@Migukin I agree. I'm not sure how we got to this place where having a civilized discussion is so difficult. The whole point is to be exposed to a different POV. Safe spaces shouldn't be a thing, but civility should.

@Trav1sty @Migukin It's not about not being able to handle it, it's about having some time without thinking too hard about something that already ruins your life as it is.
Just like if you break up with someone you'll prefer not to see them too much for a while. The effect is the same about politics when it has too many direct consequences on your life.
Having even a civilized discussion about something that is in fact depressing hurts people.

@CobaltVelvet @Trav1sty

I pretty much completely disagree with what you just wrote. But you are the majority and I want to keep things civil, so I won't press the issue. I understand that Twitter has left you violated mentally in some ways -- it has me -- but it has also toughened me up in others. As long as the discussion is civil, I see no need to gratuitously use the CW. But my general response is -- Meh.

@Migukin @CobaltVelvet I don't see how that's feasible. At which point do U consider the basic things around U as "too much to handle?" There's nothing wrong with trying to shield your feelings from what's going on around you, but at the same time, it's not practical. Life is going to happen whether you like it or not. Maybe just step back, regroup, and then rejoin? That would be a healthier repose than "I need a safe place" (which you should already have at home.)

@Trav1sty @Migukin By all of this I mean: do you have to see people wanting to literally murder you in a genocide and strip you of all human rights, *on a daily basis*, even when just playing a MP game, trying to think about something else?

Well I do. And I can guarantee you that however thick your skin can be, it will eventually get to you and you'll end up either crying in your bed or doing too much drugs or blowing up a public place. No one wants that.

@CobaltVelvet @Trav1sty

It's pointless to discuss this. You're obviously too easily "triggered" and anything I say at this point will only make matters worse. Godspeed.

@Migukin @Trav1sty You're obviously way too privileged to even think someone else's life may not be as good. Don't be an idiot on purpose, that's pathetic. At least try.

@Migukin @Trav1sty Hey if you don't like CWs, remember you're free to go fuck yourself. Anytime.
Why don't you join one of these gnusocial instances full of assholes with no rules no one wants to federate with? You may like it there!

Shelton Bumgarner @Migukin

@CobaltVelvet @Trav1sty

I was definitely triggered by that statement.

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@Migukin @Trav1sty So you do have feelings and abandonment issues? interesting.
Maybe you'll accept the fact that other people may have some.

Or still don't get it and compare being insulted with PTSD and depression.

Whatever man, try to be good. Otherwise I'd pick another instance.