Last night, I overheard my wife state her regret for getting married.

She didn't think I could hear, or didn't realize I was there.

I believe this is probably that moment that everyone who is in a marriage that is beginning to fall apart realizes that it's probably not going to get better, right?

@Shoju I don't think any relationship is just something that has it's own life. It's something people build together, and nurture.

If there's a problem there, it is something that you should both be addressing together, frankly and honestly. If you, collectively, can't address it in a way that seems like there's a solution, find a mediator who can help the both of you understand it and try to decide whether it's something you both want to repair and grow.