Unsolicited advice of the day: It's okay to get down when you're having a hard time. Feel sorry for yourself! Decide your situation is unfair. It's even okay to roll your eyes a bit at someone for complaining of problems that barely register in your weary eyes.

But don't you dare shit on someone else for getting assistance or having a support network or just plain stumbling into some good luck like they're cheating a system you aren't able to game. What good does that negativity do anyone?