Just found out at breakfast this morning that my wife went a little crazy yesterday and confronted my friend J (and my boss) in her office yesterday at my school. That's why J had to delete all contacts with me. Just one more reason I know I'm doing the right thing by divorcing her and seeking custody of our son. He needs stability, not a psycho-mom.
@FadingAway hey, forgive me if i offend you, but is your wife bipolar? i ask, because mine is (we're currently separated ourselves) and i've been accused of everything under the sun. and when she's cycling (or God forbid, hasn't taken her Rx) she can be psychotic herself. The accusations and confrontations just kind of sound like she may be.
@churley79 It wouldn't surprise me in the least if she were, but she's never been diagnosed. For the most part, I think she's just a spoiled brat (Chinese princess). Her parents have given her everything she's wanted all her life. She's a control freak who never learned how to deal with someone saying "no" to her.
@churley79 It's not that I don't want to help her. I'll definitely try to help her more after the divorce is final, but at this point, she has done too much with intent to hurt me so that I have no desire to help her until I am free of her control and have legal custody of our son. Besides, I'm in China, and I couldn't understand much of what the therapist would say. Also, she claims she is seeing a psychologist, but I think she's really just more of a marriage counselor. It's not helping her.
@FadingAway i would maybe ask a therapist or something. maybe schedule an appt yourself and talk to him/her about what she does and how she acts. would be helpful to get an expert opinion. either it may help ya'll out (if you want that) or help you out with custody. but, if it were me, i would try to help her.
or you may have no desire too, and in that case, i'll shut up. 🤐