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@Fidgetcetera How do you tell whether someone's non-binary?

Maybe, for example, someone has a beard because they think they grow a swank beard.

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@DaveHiggins the same way you tell anyone's gender: you let them tell you, if it's relevant

@Fidgetcetera Exactly.

So how can one tell whether cute people are non-binary unless one asks every person one finds cute?

@Fidgetcetera You were extolling the virtue of cute *non-binary* people; I was seeking clarification for how one meaningfully differentiated them from cute people in general without asking every cute person whether they so identify.