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@Elizafox but you're already burning in c hell

main issue with xml is that every single acronym with xml in it is already taken

@bortzmeyer jq "." -C | less -R 😉

@bortzmeyer i never remember the parameters to make it work nicely with less

@szbalint but was it really *bad*

let's say we make a standard xml subset, what's bad in it?

i kinda miss having xml everywhere

json awful to write and unreadable without indentation (counting the ]} )
yaml is far too complicated and intuitive for what it achieves
toml is nearly that but it's too flat, it's just not the same

hot take i will absolutely not stand by in a few hours

xml is actually great, both to read and write, by humans and machines (at least as a subset of xml).

@Efi what if you play sex in the cybre

or yeah literally both but it's less cool

@Efi why not

@Efi maybe one maybe the other maybe both at the same time

@Efi maybe both

hot take transfer protocol

@taziden ben ouais mais faut pas non plus les oublier, genre je vois souvent des gens qui veulent promouvoir l'auto-hébergement et après quand les gens ont des problèmes "ouais mais c'est le risque démerde toi"

@SunCat yeah, i do count a social transition as a transition, whether it's a start or all of it

@a_breakin_glass yeah it's just, some people identify, some people remotely identify and are okay with it, some people don't identify are not okay with being associated with some gender and they will get shit on for it, and many other degrees. i put the cis/trans limit on the "not okay with it"

@a_breakin_glass imo nb and trans and two different groups and there's a huge overlap but also people only in one

and i'm right on the intersection so i can shit on everyone fairly

@a_breakin_glass it is a thing and that people use it so badly makes me sad and angry

@SunCat said otherwise, trans people need to transition or want to transition, otherwise they aren't trans and i don't think letting us have that word is too much to ask. and by transition i mean even the slightest thing, or strong desire to have it; i don't imply all trans people need to identify with a binary gender or have hrt or any surgery or anything like that.

if the cis is a theoretical entity that don't actually exist what are we doing

@SunCat not really, partially i guess, it's a generic thing about people putting one's individual feeling about their identity as more important than the fact that gender itself is a social phenomena and doesn't exist on an individual level

i don't want to start to quantify dysphoria but being trans means a difference with the gender society assigned to someone that isn't only lexical, and that's something we use to survive and help each other

trans woman: *is a woman, considers a transition*

the bad enbies, very seriously: this is enbyphobia

trans ∪ enbies: maybe being trans is source of actual issues in society whereas just being aware that gender is a construct without having to change yours to feel okay isn't a cause to oppression and makes you cis though ally

some other bad enbies: we're actually the most oppressed, look even you oppress us right now 👏 nbphobia & transphobia 👏 are 👏 bad 👏