@webmind well you're the one insisting about experience, why? I don't and won't care about who has their feeling hurt the more and for whatever reason, and you're right it's non comparable; my priority always will be actions done against people.
people turning a movement for the survival of a group into a petty social game that supports the awful things we were fighting against in the first place
glorifying gender always hurt people, even if you make it rainbow-colored