now of course if you're "cis enough" but not very cis either you may just not see part of this, and i imagine having someone forget a part of your tri-gender may be found offensive. here's a free issue-evaluation fix: they didn't murder you or use a wrong pronoun or name or forced you not to take your medication or forced you to wear some different clothing or forbid you to use the bathroom, it's quite a fine day i'd say.