trans woman: *is a woman, considers a transition*

the bad enbies, very seriously: this is enbyphobia

trans ∪ enbies: maybe being trans is source of actual issues in society whereas just being aware that gender is a construct without having to change yours to feel okay isn't a cause to oppression and makes you cis though ally

some other bad enbies: we're actually the most oppressed, look even you oppress us right now 👏 nbphobia & transphobia 👏 are 👏 bad 👏

@CobaltVelvet
Um... Sorry, I don't understand. Is it about calling people truscum or smth else entirely?

@SunCat not really, partially i guess, it's a generic thing about people putting one's individual feeling about their identity as more important than the fact that gender itself is a social phenomena and doesn't exist on an individual level

i don't want to start to quantify dysphoria but being trans means a difference with the gender society assigned to someone that isn't only lexical, and that's something we use to survive and help each other

@SunCat said otherwise, trans people need to transition or want to transition, otherwise they aren't trans and i don't think letting us have that word is too much to ask. and by transition i mean even the slightest thing, or strong desire to have it; i don't imply all trans people need to identify with a binary gender or have hrt or any surgery or anything like that.

if the cis is a theoretical entity that don't actually exist what are we doing