@danielle Raising a kid with two moms has made me realize my culturally-ingrained biases in how I gender stuff, and how differently she does it.

I noticed I automatically referred to her astronaut and construction worker toys as "he", which is stupid so I made a conscious effort not to gender them. My kid, on the other hand, tends to refer to *everything* as "she", even after being told that someone (e.g. her doctor) is a man and a "he".