Honestly, the true long game I'm playing is one where years after my departure I end up femme-presenting enough that even if my family decides to revive their old stalker-ish tendencies and find out where I live, they won't recognize me and conclude that their leads were wrong.

I'm a mess of health issues as-is so I doubt I'd be able to handle HRT anyway, which means exercising is the only road (and dieting but that's impossible in the current environment so I _have_ to wait until I move out).