@wim_v12e I gather that white man tech privilege is also very big (in my experience not as big as Asian man tech privilege, if I can extrapolate from my experience—I remember being called out exactly one time in my career for not having a clue what I was talking about, my white male colleagues much more).

Like Guo says, (maybe) you and (def) I faced far fewer microaggressions and overt hostility in school and early career than our female, black, gay, trans, &c. colleagues.